| not been on here too often lately 07:45 - Nov 25 with 5996 views | loftboy |
Just started a new Jo after being my sons registered carer for a good few years, delivering around central and west London for a.food company ( the one where your ingredients for a weeks meals are put in a box with a menu card) delivered to the abbey road studios yesterday..
For the last year or so my marriage has been rocky to.say the least, turns out my feelings were right and she has met someone new, git my finger out and have met a lovely lady through a dating site, she genuinely is a lovely person after meeting her which has relieved some of my anger and hurt, but all of a sudden I've lost another stone I weight, is this stress or justice the fact I'm working all day and not eating properly ?
The new lady is only 41 and a proper niortherner who seems to want to look after her man!!!! |  |
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| not been on here too often lately on 08:26 - Nov 25 with 4071 views | kingsburyR |
Good for you LB!!!! |  |
| Dont know why we bother. .... but we do! |
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| not been on here too often lately on 08:29 - Nov 25 with 4054 views | BazzaInTheLoft |
Well done mate.
Hope it works out for you. |  | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 08:52 - Nov 25 with 4007 views | PlanetHonneywood |
Good for you fella and nice to read something more positive!
Two and a half years ago I was based in Manila and one day at work I got a text informing that my mum had been rushed to hospital. I boarded the quickest flight I could get with a return for 10 days after that. 18 months later I was still in London.
The incredible job 'we' carers do is sadly not understood or recognised for the sacrifices it requires and the huge mental, emotional and even physical toll it takes on us. The effects of which can alter your future life and plans significantly.
Sounds like you've been through the ringer in more ways than one. So its good to read that things are turning round. In life you make your own luck but the older I get, the more I ascribe to the concept of karma. Maybe for the bad you've experienced the good is coming around.
No doubt you will cherish it as much as I am sure you won't take it for granted either. |  |
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| not been on here too often lately on 08:54 - Nov 25 with 4001 views | johncharles |
All the best Loftboy.
Northern girl ? Beware the Sunday dinners. Mountains of roast potatoes and gravy. |  |
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| not been on here too often lately on 09:00 - Nov 25 with 3983 views | karl |
Lost a stone after meeting a new lady and you've got a smile on your face? Well I fancy its not 3 square meals a day that's responsible.
Edit. Jammy Beggar, might I add! [Post edited 25 Nov 2015 9:01]
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| not been on here too often lately on 09:03 - Nov 25 with 3967 views | Brightonhoop |
| not been on here too often lately on 08:54 - Nov 25 by johncharles |
All the best Loftboy.
Northern girl ? Beware the Sunday dinners. Mountains of roast potatoes and gravy. |
Good to hear you're ok mate and taking new roads, literally on the job front. As someone else said, grim times are always making way for better days.It takes a real man to be a carer to a child.
Keep on keeping' on. |  | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 09:20 - Nov 25 with 3935 views | isawqpratwcity |
All sounds good! |  |
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| not been on here too often lately on 09:27 - Nov 25 with 3912 views | PinnerRob |
Congratulations & good luck!! |  | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 09:42 - Nov 25 with 3873 views | BrianMcCarthy |
Delighted for you, loftboy.
I don't believe in karma as the other lads do. The way I see it you got a new job purely because you put the effort in to find one and you met a new woman because you took the initiative there as well and joined a dating site. Sometimes it works out, and sometimes it doesn't. But it 's all your own work, which has got to feel good!
Sound like you really deserve it too, my man. Delighted for you. |  |
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| not been on here too often lately on 09:46 - Nov 25 with 3862 views | TheBlob |
Good luck Lofty Boy.
Maybe you'll get some proppah Yorkshire Pud and none of that Aunt Bessie crap. |  |
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| not been on here too often lately on 10:40 - Nov 25 with 3800 views | scot1963 |
sorry to hear that lofty - I saw you'd posted something on facebook and wondered if that was the case. An unexpected change of circumstance but sometimes that can be the start of a whole new lease of life  |  | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 12:55 - Nov 25 with 3680 views | nix |
Glad to hear it Loftboy. It takes a lot of guts to turn things around rather than stew in bitterness, even though that gets you nowhere in the long run.
Hope things continue to go upwards and onwards.
Maybe some of our players could do with a pep talk! |  | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 13:00 - Nov 25 with 3669 views | welwynranger |
| not been on here too often lately on 08:54 - Nov 25 by johncharles |
All the best Loftboy.
Northern girl ? Beware the Sunday dinners. Mountains of roast potatoes and gravy. |
You'll have gravy on yer chips | | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 13:52 - Nov 25 with 3595 views | paulparker |
Fair play Loftboy , another way to meet woman besides internet dating is to go salsa dancing tons of old Muff go in there mate & you keep the weight down as well
on a serious note its not nice when a marriage breaks up , having been through it I know its a b*tch, all I would say is get yourself out & about, keep busy and never frequent the places you went when you were married ie, restaurant's, bars, etc
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| And Bowles is onside, Swinburne has come rushing out of his goal , what can Bowles do here , onto the left foot no, on to the right foot
That’s there that’s two, and that’s Bowles
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| not been on here too often lately on 14:14 - Nov 25 with 3533 views | Snipper |
Congrats loftboy. But has she been interviewed for the QPR job yet? |  | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 15:05 - Nov 25 with 3473 views | AlbRanger |
Can't really add to some of these rather candid sentiments except to say you have clearly carried yourself with the utmost integrity and dignity throughout and I genuinely feel your future happiness is well deserved mate.
Hope it works out better than you could hope possible |  | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 17:17 - Nov 25 with 3389 views | essextaxiboy |
Respect to you LB . It has always been obvious from your posts that you love your kids to bits . They are the positives you can take from it all . Hopefully she wont come out as a Chelsea fan on Christmas Day ! Good luck
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| not been on here too often lately on 17:46 - Nov 25 with 3356 views | 2Thomas2Bowles |
Can only wish you the best for the future. |  |
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| not been on here too often lately on 19:21 - Nov 25 with 3294 views | CFW |
Has she got a friend for me? | | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 20:09 - Nov 25 with 3254 views | londonscottish |
Well done, LB. Good skills :-) |  |
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| not been on here too often lately on 20:23 - Nov 25 with 3230 views | BklynRanger |
Sounds like you've tunneled your way through some difficult times there LB. Glad you reached the other side. |  | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 06:18 - Nov 26 with 3103 views | brewers_hoop |
Good for you mate. And some great supportive messages on here from the LFW massive. There might be lots of disagreements about football, politics and life in general on this board but in times of need we're all one big happy family.  |  | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 06:26 - Nov 26 with 3097 views | FDC |
Nice one mate. Some of the shit life hands out sometimes is hard to take, so it's always good to hear when someone manages to get through it and out the other side.  |  | | |
| not been on here too often lately on 07:35 - Nov 26 with 3067 views | CroydonCaptJack |
Good luck with your new life loftboy. That happened to my brother and he has never been happier now having met and married someone new. |  | | |
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