| Ted Hendrix / RIP 14:46 - Oct 27 with 6696 views | Charlie1 |
Hi everyone,
Been a long time since I posted so for those who know / remember me, I hope you are all well.
My brother and I Dad, Ted Hendrix, who was a frequent poster and known to many on here over god knows how many years, passed away yesterday in the early hours. My mum, brother and I were all with him at the end. Candidly, he did suffer for a couple of weeks and it was a difficult period for us all, but the last few days he wasn’t suffering. He was content and comfortable despite the cancer.
Dad loved his club. His hero’s all played in the 60’s and 70’s when he was a kid growing up and causing mischief in west London.
A brief story. Fathers / mothers obviously introduce siblings to their football clubs (or mental torture if you support QPR). Dad took me to Loftus Road in 86 for my first game against Liverpool in the Milk cup semi final. No idea when he inflicted it on my younger brother!
I stopped going a few years back. Fell out of love with the game and found the Redknapp era awful ie players we signed and we lost sight of who we had become. In addition, my wife and I had a family which was my priority.
When we became aware that Dad may not have long left, I took my two girls to Loftus Road for the first time, against Preston last month. In the back of my mind I thought it would be a no brainer. Few away fans, easy win etc. At half time I had two bored kids, tired and thinking what on earth is this, two down and ten men on the pitch. There is something special about Loftus Road when the lights come on, and when there is something more, deeper meaning to it all. Sure enough, the second half was magical. I did tell my girls numerous times that supporting QPR is massive highs and lows (typically lows). They loved it.
The day after, they spent time with Dad for the last time (we didn’t know that at the time but I’m sure you can read between the lines re health deteriorating). Therein a conversation about QPR over the years and generations talking shop. And we gave him a program and A kick up the R’s. Somethings are meant to be.
I’m aware many of you have asked for updates and probably contacted Dad. My brother Paul and I want to thank you all for your thoughts, best wishes and friendship over the years. This message board meant a lot to him, especially the last few years as he had a few health issues.
Thanks again for the well wishes and support. Take care all.
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 21:27 - Oct 27 with 1141 views | hoopsa |
RIP Ted. A true Hoops legend. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 21:39 - Oct 27 with 1059 views | LeedsR |
Such lovely and heartfelt words that must have been as painful as they were beautiful to write. Another who never met Ted but always appreciated the candour, ability to concisely cut through any argument, and take no cr@p, much in the way of the Oakland Raiders player of the 70s (I’m assuming that’s where he took his name from - please correct me if I’m wrong). There was no question of his love for Rangers and that came through so much in what he wrote. He will be missed.
Condolences to his family and loved ones.
RIP Ted. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 21:53 - Oct 27 with 1003 views | Ned_Kennedys |
Ah that’s really sad news: RIP Ted. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 21:59 - Oct 27 with 974 views | enfieldargh |
So sorry to hear this news
Loved all his posts always thought provoking
Will miss his slagging off of Reading who he really did not have a soft spot for
RIP Ted a legend amongst us |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 22:07 - Oct 27 with 936 views | queensparker |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 18:34 - Oct 27 by Northernr |
God that's so sad, even though we'd been told it was coming.
A man who's been on this site as long as this site existed. The man who named the bloody thing. Father of the house.
Ted had an amazing ability to say in five words what takes most of the rest of us 500. He'd cut straight through the crap, tell you what he thought, and he was right. Can you ever remember Ted Hendrix being wrong, on any issue really? A real bellwether for opinions on here so goodness knows what a terrific man and influence this must have been to have as a father Dave, and Paul. I'm so sorry for you both.
I loved hearing about the QPR of the past from him, and he saw (and saw through) so many of the chancers that came later. Watching him chasing Gareth Bale around the Lower Loft giving it the old 'fck off out of here'. The iconic photograph. Legend.
RIP Ted and very best to Dave, Paul and the family. This will never be the same place again without him.
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Never met Ted or you Charlie but that picture of him and Bale has always stayed with me - just the greatest. Reflected exactly his no nonsense tone on here. And always loved the fact he helped build the Majedski Reading stadium and it made them hate that club forever
RIP to one of the best voices on this forum |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 22:30 - Oct 27 with 841 views | BrazilNutR |
Another who never met him, but always enjoyed his posts, both music and QPR related. Very sad news.
RIP Ted |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 22:34 - Oct 27 with 830 views | delhoop |
sorry for your loss,was a great man as we all used to meet up at half time with ted,used to meet him sometimes aswell when i was delivering to kiers in newbury💙 |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 22:35 - Oct 27 with 827 views | Kiwi76 |
Sad news to wake up to & thoughts with friends & family.
Like many I knew Ted through this site & he’s been a constant for the over 20yrs since I stumbled onto it 12000 miles from Loftus Rd.
Loads of lovely comments & memories above and he’ll be missed |  | | |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 22:37 - Oct 27 with 811 views | CLAREMAN1995 |
When your Father posted he had pancratic cancer I felt like someone kicked me in the stomach because I knew his time to travel onwards was near and its one of the worst ways sadly.
Watched my own Father bite through his lips on his last night and I leaned over and whispered go to visit his wife our Mother who went to the Promised Land 18 months earlier and he left us a few hours later.
Glad his suffering is over and he was surounded by a loving family its all we can hope for when the time comes.
RIP . |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 22:54 - Oct 27 with 757 views | NW5Hoop |
Sorry for your loss x |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 22:55 - Oct 27 with 755 views | StreathamRanger |
RIP Ted. A good man by all accounts. Very sorry for your loss. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 23:11 - Oct 27 with 691 views | DejR_vu |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 22:55 - Oct 27 by StreathamRanger |
RIP Ted. A good man by all accounts. Very sorry for your loss. |
Such sad news.
Didn’t know Ted personally but felt as though I did through here.
Thoughts with his family and friends. Rest in Peace Ted. | |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 23:19 - Oct 27 with 673 views | Fearless |
Hi Dave (Charlie)
Not sure you’ll remember me, but we had a few drinks in the bush and one at Liverpool Street (may have been your birthday?)
I met Ted many times and always enjoyed my chats with him, as others have said, pretty no nonsense kind of guy
I’m sorry for your loss (words are pretty inadequate, sorry)
But for what it’s worth I remember you both fondly
Ian [Post edited 27 Oct 23:22]
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 23:21 - Oct 27 with 657 views | hamptonhillhoop |
So sorry for your loss. RIP Ted. Nothing else to say that hasn't already been said |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 00:03 - Oct 28 with 569 views | E17hoop |
Thoughts with you and your family. |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 00:30 - Oct 28 with 540 views | hook_hoops |
So sorry to hear this sad news. I didn't know Ted personally but his posts on here always brought a smile. He will be much missed.
RIP Ted | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 00:38 - Oct 28 with 526 views | Monkey_Roots |
So sorry for your loss.
I wish there was something more I could say to make it hurt a little less.
He was your dad, and you loved him, and he loved you - god bless you all at this terribly sad time.
Rest in peace Ted. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 05:51 - Oct 28 with 361 views | silky |
RIP Ted, one of a kind. ❤️ |  |
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| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 06:04 - Oct 28 with 343 views | Clive_Anderson |
Very sad to hear this, always enjoyed his posts going back a long time.
RIP Ted | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 07:11 - Oct 28 with 250 views | BexleyHoop |
Very sad news to log on to. My sincere condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. I am glad that his family was with him when he passed as I am sure that would have been a great comfort to him.
Enjoyed Ted's posts and he will be sorely missed on here.
It sounds like his love for QPR has now been passed to your daughters and that was his parting gift. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 08:31 - Oct 28 with 112 views | Guppy |
RIP Ted and condolences to the family. Will really miss his posts | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 08:39 - Oct 28 with 79 views | SydneyRs |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 18:34 - Oct 27 by Northernr |
God that's so sad, even though we'd been told it was coming.
A man who's been on this site as long as this site existed. The man who named the bloody thing. Father of the house.
Ted had an amazing ability to say in five words what takes most of the rest of us 500. He'd cut straight through the crap, tell you what he thought, and he was right. Can you ever remember Ted Hendrix being wrong, on any issue really? A real bellwether for opinions on here so goodness knows what a terrific man and influence this must have been to have as a father Dave, and Paul. I'm so sorry for you both.
I loved hearing about the QPR of the past from him, and he saw (and saw through) so many of the chancers that came later. Watching him chasing Gareth Bale around the Lower Loft giving it the old 'fck off out of here'. The iconic photograph. Legend.
RIP Ted and very best to Dave, Paul and the family. This will never be the same place again without him.
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I was going to suggest this photo should appear in his honour. An instant classic.
RIP Ted. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 08:47 - Oct 28 with 61 views | MrSheen |
RIP Ted. I never met the man, but I always enjoyed his posts (particularly about Reading!), a passionate man with a lively mind. Condolences to his family on a great loss. |  | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 08:49 - Oct 28 with 55 views | Blue_Castello |
Thanks for the post Dave i remember you posting on here, some good constructive debate from you which is inherited I'm sure.
So sorry to hear about Ted's passing I never met him but he always came across as one of the best, it's a really tough rollercoaster of emotions when somebody close to you passes away, our thoughts are with you and all the family......RIP. | | | |
| Ted Hendrix / RIP on 09:10 - Oct 28 with 7 views | ngbqpr |
So sorry for your loss, deepest condolences to all.
Like many, I only knew Ted through LFW. What I do know is, Ted and his ilk are what supporting your club is all about. Really, it's why we all keep going, isn't it? This random community brought together by one shared passion - and in the end, it's the community and its beyond idiosyncratic nature that more often than not glues us together more than what's happening on the pitch.
RIP Mr Hendrix. |  |
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